A lot of people since time have this problem of seeing only on thing that they want in life and not the “what i have” and it inspires me to talk about how us as human being seem to make any difference how much we have, we just keep expanding our list of desires,which is crazy because we are never satisfied.
you tell yourself “im going to be happy when i get this” and once you get it its on to the next best thing until that goal is met.

If you are in a house and you want to buy a bigger house with your spouse it would be making sense “who doent want a bigger house” Im not saying you cant do it but if you’re going to think like that you have to plan things out and be careful not to overlook at important things in life such as your love life and the people you care most about.

Theirs always a different view on how to look for a way to change things or ways to change minds and you could be happy by just thinking “i love the way he is” instead of trying to change he/she is and this comes from a relationship advice “YOU CAN NOT CHANGE A PERSON” everyone seems to realize it and know about it but they still try and in the end get mad and problems accord.

Its all crazy and it draws extra issues that we really shouldn’t be discussing or arguing about and there is a way to get rid of all that stressful bricks off your back and its all about “STATE OF MIND”

Like i said before “what you think and feel are very important” and sometimes we get so warped up that we forget about the things we got and end up losing them.So you could just tell yourself “i am working so hard to get our life back together so we can be filthy rich “and later on your wife divorces you for not spending time with the family….see what i mean.

YOU have to balance yourself and tell yourself that you’re grateful for what you got “WHY YOU THINK PEOPLE AT CHURCH ARE SO HAPPY AND GLAD” because they thank god for what they got and look for wisdom and that’s exactly what you should do.Im not saying “GO TO CHURCH” but im telling you is to think diffrent and see yourself with an open mind about what you have in life already.

Try thinking about the wonderful qualities your spouse has or how your work is crazy but it will pay off,as you think this way your life also begins to see a new path and then you will truly see that your spouse is paying more attention and its happier knowing that you work hard and at the sometime he/she is not being cast out and wishes the more happiness for you. You never know, you mite end up learning new things at your job and getting a raise *which you are anyways* so stop filling that head with negativity and start spreading those wings of positive view in life.

Life intends to only get better before it gets worse and yes lifes not perfect but you cant keep reminding yourself on how dark your world is because “who really wants to spend there life thinking its all worhtless” so cheer up,things will get good and appreciate what you got a job or a lover or a life.

If you dont “GET ONE!!!!” READ A BOOK OR JOIN A CLUB, you never know what crazy things mite happend and like i always tell people “if you wrote a book about yourself how many people would read it?”

SO WORK HARD AND PLAY HARD *AND SAFE* AND APPRECIATE THE THINGS YOU GOT BECAUSE Remember you only live once.