Im sorry that i haven’t pick up on my daily updating report here at Silvermyst, I’ve notice that i have been losing viewers and i take responsibility for these numbers going down. I have been actually been busy with work and with other small projects that i need to complete before the end of this month.

The sooner i get done with these projects the better, one of them includes finding a SECOND job to pay off this expensive camera i want to buy. No more Credit Cards on my way “I’ve learned my lesson”.

So let me go ahead and give you a short summary of what I’ve done these several days.

I basically can’t remember what the hell i did, lol all i know it that I’ve been visiting Luis and his WIFE more offend and they always inviting me for dinner which is SO DAM GOOD. lol Once again i can say that his brother knows how to cook and should never leave Elkhart Indiana, he will be the reason why i would gain so many fucking pounds. We watched a lot of dam movies which i didn’t mind but my brain and body were telling me to just get out of that apartment and go do something for a while. I am not so sure why our friend Luiz likes to just sit and watch movies all day, my brain would go crazy.

I think not being active will lead into problems that you might not really notice, take this for example:

“My boyfriend is getting annoyed by the things i do and he is starting to get into these mood swings, im not sure why he’s being such dutchbag or why he doesn’t want to be romantic” PETER.

First thing im going to ask is “peter, are you keeping yourself busy with activities that will take your mind off things?” my best advice is to have your own personal life going on as well as having a relationship going, nothing would kill a relationship than spending almost 95% of it with your spouse, That might not be the total case for some people but sooner or later they will get on each other nerves and start to distingue certain feelings thoughts one another.

This is a sign that you are not just spending too much time with your spouse but it’s also indicating that “you got better time to kill worrying about HIS life than your own” and yes it may sound a little selfish but this is how some people do it:

“hi honey im home but i got to head to the gym, meet Karl for coffee and have a meeting at 7:00pm, i can’t wait till i see you at dinner so you can tell me how your day when”

Or you can even see each other through job breaks or during your activity process like in a coffee place:

“Wow I’ve been so busy all day, i can’t wait till we relax tonight with a movie and have a romantic get-a-way this coming month”

Point im trying to make is to be active and be FAITHFUL and still cherish those moments you have, working hard does pay off and also having your own schedule, Its always a good idea to have friends who are there to take your mind off things, like fishing with your buddies and forget about the wife and kids, Again this is not being selfish but just having time to yourself to relax from the stress of work and family. lol

Its life and its reality that we have issues and we always intend to get on each other nerves, but you shount give up so easily, this is why a lot of people intend to be living alone because they can’t handle confutations between the mates. In the real life mates and married couple get into fights ALL THE TIME.

Some may be for stupid conversations and some maybe serious but ALL in the long run they will know that “YOU CAN’T APPRECIATE THE GOOD TIMES WITHOUT THE BAD”.

Remember that it takes 2 to make a relationship work, if one of them cheats on you “DONT BE STUPID AND TAKE HIM BACK, You don’t owe him/her anything and its them who have to punish themselves for it” Trust is a BIGGY in ANY relationship and if you violate that code of honor, Then you already lost the battle and respect from your love ones. Respect is not a choir its something you were thought since you were a child, it gives out rewards like no other and working hard just makes it more rewarding because you know it pays off. Yes you can say that not all the time, but “isn’t good better than bad?” I think so.

Sometimes bad things happened to good people but this is just another challenge to see how you would react and how you would solve that problem, sometimes its people who have the problem and …well…you can’t change people who don’t want to change, you can’t do all the work for them or they will not learn anything and just take advantage of the situation and position you are putting yourself into.

This little information might not be for me but it goes for almost all them gay/st8 mates out there who think they got it hard, who think that having a boyfriend/girlfriend 24/7 is annoying and getting OLD. lol This is for those who want to know how it works and how it should work to balance “not only time for yourself” but time for your partner as well and achieve great things and learn new experience and get WISDOM.